It happens at a movie or play, or maybe while we’re watching
TV. I lean over to my wife and whisper:
“What did she say?” I may have to wait
for the laughter to subside or for a quiet moment before I ask.
I’m one of the nearly 10 percent of Americans with hearing
loss, although mine is fairly moderate and has little effect on my job
performance or everyday living. I started
wearing a hearing aid in the late 90s that was provided by a previous
employer’s health insurance plan. Since
then, I have replaced my hearing aids twice (they have an average life
expectancy of about 5 years) at a cost of thousands.
My audiologist says I have adult hearing loss (also known as
presbycusis) and tinnitus, a nearly constant ringing and occasional clicking in
my ears. The cause: a combination of age
(I’m 67), heredity and environment (meaning those countless hours spent at rock
concerts and college bars). The heredity part of the condition came from my
dad. When I was a teenager, I began to notice he said “huh” quite often during
conversations. Later in life, he did get hearing aids and I think they really
helped him. In fact, he told me he really liked the volume controls, especially
if my mom was upset about something he did or didn’t do.
The Problem with Hearing Loss
The Problem with Hearing Loss
There is no cure for the damaged nerve endings in my middle
ear that fail to accurately convert the vibration of the eardrum from words and
sounds into the electronic energy that my brain can recognize.
The maximum optimal frequency range of human hearing is from
20 to 20,000 cycles per second or kilohertz (kHz). My audiologist says my hearing is normal up
to about 1,000 kHz, and then falls below normal. Unfortunately, most human speech occurs in
the 1,000 to 4,000 kHz range.
In one-on-one conversation or in small groups, I can
function just fine although I may have to ask that something be repeated on
occasion. But, add a little background
noise, at a party or in a crowded restaurant for example, and I have more
difficulty.
In the comic strip “Crankshaft,” Crankshaft’s best friend
and fellow senior citizen Ralph, a former big band-era musician, bemoans his
hearing loss because he no longer hears the voices of women and children. Crankshaft replies: “What’s so bad about
that?”
Social Effects of Hearing Loss
Social Effects of Hearing Loss
What’s so bad about that is that others may feel I’m
uninterested in them because I don’t respond to everything they’ve said and I
may feel I’ve already used up my self-imposed limit of asking them to repeat
themselves. When our neighbors’
four-year old son and I would talk years ago, I bet I didn’t understand half of
the words he was saying. Now that he’s 13, I understand him just fine.
I’ve taught at a local university for many years and I didn’t
have a problem hearing most of my students most of the time. But, there were
instances where I couldn’t understand a specific student or comment, even if
repeated.
In order to avoid frustration, I find my tastes in movies
and TV have changed, as my hearing gets progressively worse. When we pick out a video to watch, any
British accent “chick flicks” that my wife enjoys are off limits unless I can
turn on the closed captions. I find
myself using the captioning feature on my TV most of the time for dramas and
comedy—to “hear” someone I’m having difficulty understanding.
I also have declined to go to plays or programs or meetings
where I think I might have a problem understand what’s being said. And that’s the issue. I hear the voices but I can’t understand
every word, even with my hearing aids. I
would rather not go through the frustration and fatigue of not understanding
than having to keep asking for something to be repeated.
Hearing Loss and Aging
Hearing Loss and Aging
Many researchers, including the National Academy on an Aging
Society have observed that older people with hearing disorders tend to
volunteer less, be less healthy and are more depressed and less satisfied with
their lives. Many are concerned about the stigma, effectiveness and mostly the
cost of a hearing aid. While you can purchase an economy model that simply
amplifies all sounds for a couple of hundred dollars, more effective models
with adjustable frequency response control that can be customized for an
individual’s specific hearing disorder can cost up to several thousand dollars
for a pair.
As more Baby Boomers move into senior status, the number of
Americans with impaired hearing will increase.
I just hope we aren’t stereotyped like the old geezer with the horn held
to his ear or that aid for the hearing impaired doesn’t consist of someone
shouting at us—ala Garrett Morris’s news for the hearing-impaired on “Saturday
Night Live” many years ago.
But, there are a few simple things you can do to help me and
others like me hear you more clearly.
Make sure we can see your face clearly and don’t try to speak to us from
another room or across a large room. You
don’t have to speak a lot louder, but make sure you speak clearly. Try to reduce background noise by turning
down the TV or making sure we converse in a quieter section of a public place
like a restaurant. But, most of all,
show some understanding without being patronizing.
After all, odds are some day when you are older you’ll be
asking someone to repeat something they just said to you too.
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